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Recently, our family took a trip to the Griffith Observatory, the historic public astronomy destination with its beautiful views of the Hollywood sign, the Pacific Ocean, and the downtown skyline of Los Angeles.

Being a resident of Southern California, I feel really blessed to have such a wonderful science attraction in my own backyard.  And with the special significance of this year and our trip to Griffith, I am even now more appreciative.

This year, the Observatory is celebrating the International Year of Astronomy, marking the 400th anniversary of Galileo Galilei’s pioneering observations of the heavens with his telescope.

In 1609, Galileo created one of the most powerful telescopes of the day, and upon completing his device, he turned it to the skies, observing celestial features such as the Moon and the planet Jupiter.  Within the first few days of the following year, he observed, for the first time, four of the moons circling Jupiter – Io, Europa, Ganymede, and Callisto. 

Prior to that time, outside of our own Moon, no person had ever seen celestial bodies orbiting planets, so viewing these satellites with such clarity was quite an achievement in and of itself.

Yet, the most powerful impact of Galileo’s observations would be what he chose to present about the moons’ movements.

Galileo, in publishing his observations, “concluded, and decided unhesitatingly, that there are three stars in the heavens moving about Jupiter, as Venus and Mercury around the Sun” and “that there are not only three, but four, erratic sidereal bodies performing their revolutions around Jupiter.”

By concluding that Jupiter’s moon orbited around the planet and further that they were similar to how Venus and Mercury orbited around the Sun, Galileo was siding with the theories of Nicolaus Copernicus.  And in Galileo’s times, this was a direct challenge to the conventional wisdom.

In 1543, Copernicus published work describing his heliocentric model, where planets revolved around the Sun, opposing the current thinking of the time that all celestial bodies, including the Sun, revolved around the Earth.

Of course, we know today that the Earth revolves around the Sun, so this certainly doesn’t come as a shocking statement to us.  But in the 17th century, this was heresy.  This challenged the view that most philosophers and astronomers held – that the Earth was the center of the universe.

Even with over sixty years having passed since Copernicus presented his theories, Galileo was met with bitter opposition.  In fact, some of his fellow scientists eventually reported him to the Roman Inquisition in 1615.

While cleared by the Roman Catholic Church at the time, the Church denounced the heliocentric model as “false and contrary to Scripture”.  However, this was not the end of the public attack upon Galileo and his scientific work.

When Galileo later defended his views in his work, Dialogue Concerning the Two Chief World Views, in 1632, he was tried for heresy by the Inquisition, forced to recant his public writings, and placed under house arrest by the Pope.

While many people, including other scientists and the leaders of the Catholic Church, didn’t want Galileo’s views to be believed, Galileo was right in the end.  His observations provided evidence for a model that better explains what is true about our universe.

He had the courage to present his views publicly, and he pushed human society forward.  He chose to challenge the views of the dominant political force of the day, the Catholic Church – not for the sake of challenging it, but for the purpose of presenting the truth.

We can progress as a people when individuals stand up and choose to force us all to recognize the truth.  Galileo, with his simple observations of the satellites of Jupiter, profoundly forced that recognition. 

If everyone blindly agreed with everyone else, we wouldn’t change or move forward.  We wouldn’t progress or become better or improve our understanding. 

It takes individuals to present certain countering views, making us think about what is right and what is the truth.  These individuals are the ones that ultimately make the positive difference in our human history.

Four hundred years later, we now celebrate Galileo and his creation of the device that changed our understanding of the universe. 

But in addition, we should also celebrate Galileo’s willingness to challenge the conventional wisdom and change the world.

When you are giving your presentation, you might think that you need to include color, or maybe animation in your PowerPoint, or making sure you are making eye contact.

Now all of these aspects of presenting are important, but there is one key component to presenting that is the most important. And this is…

Knowing what you want as the result of your presentation

If you’re presenting technical research, do you want your audience to agree with your conclusions? Or do you just want to have them agree that you’re making progress?

In front of a potential customer, do you want them to hand you money on the spot? Or do you want to schedule another meeting to discuss terms?

If you’re demonstrating a new technology, do you want your audience to like your technology, or do you want them to buy your technology (these aren’t necessarily the same thing)?

In front of a government agency, do you want them to grant your project approval? Or do you want them to deny a project you oppose?

Knowing your desired outcome is, by far, the most important part of your presentation. Knowing your outcome lays out exactly what your presentation should be about, how it should be constructed, what it should focus on, and how it should be delivered.

When you try to put together your presentation without clearing knowing what your desired outcome should be is like getting into your car and driving without knowing the place to where you are driving.

You could focus on good driving skills, such as keeping your hands at 10 and 2 on the steering wheel, or not tailgating, or using your turn signal appropriately, but you may have driven someplace you didn’t want to end up (although you will have driven there quite well…).

Similarly, if you focus on the tactics and techniques of presenting, but pay little attention to what you’re presenting and why, then you’ll finish your presentation with the audience enjoying your style and commending you as a presenter, but they won’t respond the way you had hoped. (Unless, of course, your goal is to be considered a good presenter, but that’s certainly putting you ahead of your message…)

Again, what do you want to accomplish with your presentation, and what is your desired outcome? Knowing the answer to this question means you clearly understand the goal of the presentation, and then you can craft the presentation itself toward achieving that goal. However, without this answer, you may go into the presentation with a description of what you did or what your company is about or… and never guide your audience toward your desired outcome.

When you are presenting, you are delivering a message and you want your audience to hear the message you are trying to convey, not some other message that comes out instead. Clearly understanding your desired outcome helps to align your chosen message with the message that is actually heard by your audience.

When you are giving a presentation, there are many things that are in your control that can make your presentation go well or go terribly wrong. Without knowing it, presenters many times fall into traps of their own making, which can be easily avoided with the right tools and outlook. Here are ten of the biggest deadly mistakes that presenters should avoid.

Taking too much time

Your audience’s time is valuable, and if you care about them liking your presentation, then you will value their time. If you have an allotted slot of time in which to present, stick to that time. Don’t try to pack in more material – if your presentation is good, then you’ll be leaving the audience wanting more – that’s great! However, no matter how good your presentation is, if you go on longer than you said you would, then it’s like breaking an implicit promise.

Overusing color, flash, graphics, and animation

Color, Flash, graphics, and PowerPoint animation have their place, and they can be VERY useful in making your presentation even more effective. However, too much of a good thing can be, well, too much of a good thing. You want these devices to assist you in your presentation, but using them too much can actually distract your audience from the main purpose of your presentation – your message.

Use color and animation in the right doses to make your presentation sing, but don’t overdo it.

Reading your presentation or reading notes

If you are reading from notes during your presentation or, worse, just reading the text on your presentation slides, then you’re in the middle of a presentation train wreck. The audience will be thinking in their heads: “Well, even I could READ the slides…” Reading the slides conveys an impression that you as the presenter don’t know the material you’re presenting, since you have to read it aloud. The slides are there for the audience to guide their attention, but YOU are giving the presentation, not your slides. Don’t read – know your material and let your slides assist you.

Putting too many words on your slides

This is an especially deadly mistake. When the audience sees a slide that is just jam packed with words, their brains go to sleep. They don’t try and read the slide (it’s too difficult), and they stop listening to the speaker (deadly!). Text needs to be broken up into short bulleted items, with fonts that are easy to read, and with plenty of white space. Color can even be used to highlight certain words, conveying the message you’re intending.

Talking AT your audience instead of WITH your audience

When you’re presenting, you can’t go in with the attitude that you know more than your audience. Maybe you DO know more than the audience, but you can’t go into your presentation exuding that attitude. Your audience may know a lot about your subject, or they may only know a little, which is why they’re listening to you. But you need to connect with your audience and make sure they know that you are here to help THEM.

Your audience is asking the question to themselves: “What’s in it for me?” If you can answer that question in their minds, which means you are successfully connecting with them, then your presentation will be a hit. Talking AT your audience means that you’re not trying to connect with them; talking WITH them means that you are.

Having multiple messages on a single slide

Your presentation is like a story and you have several messages that you are trying to convey. Some messages may be steps along a path toward a larger message, so each step is most likely important. Don’t muddle these steps together if they are that important. Each slide in your presentation should have a singular message that you want the audience to come away with.

If you have a larger message that has a couple of key components, break it up into two slides. You are guiding the audience, so have them focus on one thing at a time.

Presenting the wrong image

If you’re presenting to a group of business executives, then you’ll probably want to dress in a business suit. This conveys that you understand your audience and you respect them as a group. However, if you’re presenting to a group in a more casual environment, you may not want the business suit, since it makes you seem stuffy. Overdressing and underdressing can be deadly mistakes in presenting, since it conveys the impression that you don’t understand your audience – you didn’t dress the appropriate part.

Going in cold

Regardless of how well you think you know your presentation, you need to prepare. You need to go over (even if it’s just in your head) what you’re going to say on each slide, what your messages are, and how your want to present yourself. Having a “dry run” – practicing your presentation in front of real people that will give you constructive feedback – is an important step in proper presentation preparation. Also, if you can, check out the room in which you’ll be presenting beforehand. Check out your animation and videos to see if they’ll work properly. This way, you won’t be caught off guard.

Apologizing when it’s not your fault

Apologizing may be polite, but it also sends signs of weakness and uncertainty to your audience, so be careful about how or when you apologize to your audience. Obviously, if someone is asking a question and you can’t hear them, you might say, “I’m sorry, I can’t hear you. Could you ask your question again?” This isn’t really apologizing – you’re just being polite for someone not speaking up.

However, if someone gives you grief for not including something that they think you should have included, say something like: “That’s an interesting comment. I’ll look into that for next time.” But, don’t apologize – there’s no need. If you’re prepared, and understand the material that you ARE presenting (not what somebody thinks you SHOULD BE presenting), then there is no reason to apologize.

Presenting without a Purpose

This is the number one mistake that presenters make, and what I consider to be the most important part of one’s presentation – knowing what you want to achieve as the result of your presentation, or knowing the purpose for your presentation. Maybe scientists might give a presentation of their research, or a salesperson might give a presentation on their product. Some executives might give a presentation on the state of their business, or a manager gives a presentation on the status of their program.

In each case, the presenter is giving a presentation on something and could easily just tell people what the facts are. Well, the audience may just end up asking: “So what? Why should I care?” This is the question that would get asked if the presenter didn’t know what they wanted at the end of their presentation. As a presenter, you want to ask yourself what your desired outcome is. How do you want the people hearing your presentation to respond?

You want to send a message, and you need your facts to support your message. Understanding your message defines everything else that follows in your presentation – your structure, your slides, your words. So, presenting without a purpose is the most deadly mistake of all in presenting. Avoid it at all costs!

Your job interview presentation can make the difference between you and all of the other candidates that are walking in the door.

I remember hiring people when I led an advanced technology department, and many people looked great on paper. They all had the qualifications we were looking for, but we always conducted interviews and watched how the candidate presented themselves.

In fact, that’s the main part of the presentation that hiring managers are looking for — how the candidate present themselves as opposed to the material.

And those who do that the best are the ones that companies love to hire!

So, let’s say that you’re applying for a position, and you have to give a presentation during your job interview. What do I do?

Well, first of all, don’t sweat it! You are telling these people about you, and you’re the expert on you.

OK, onto the next part — the first and most important part of your job interview presentation is to know what you want to achieve as a result.

Now, before you start screaming, “I know what I want. I want the job!…” — that’s not what I’m talking about (but I completely understand…)

What I mean is that you know what you want your audience to get out of your presentation. Do you want them to think you’re a nice person? Do you want them to think that you’re smart? Do you want them to think you’re comfortable in your own skin (we’ll return to this one later…)?

Once you know what your desired outcome is, it sets the roadmap for putting your presentation together. Everything in your presentation – your title, your slides, your outline, etc. – is geared directly toward this desired response.

Second, if you have 10 minutes for your presentation, then you should have no more than 5-7 charts, including the title slide. You don’t have a lot of time, so focus on the important point of your presentation.

Good time management of your presentation is a reflection of your ability to manage your time in other, job-related matters. Your audience’s time is valuable, so honor that value by making sure your presentation stays within your time allotment.

Lastly, be confident. Now, what do I mean by being confident? Well, you want your audience to think that you are confident in your own skin — that you know who you are, know what you know, and also what you don’t know.

There are people who try to act confident, and when they get asked a question, they are so afraid that the audience will think that they aren’t up for the job that they try to make up an answer. For lack of a better word, they try to BS their way through the interview.

Whatever you do, don’t try to make things up on the fly and try to fool your audience into giving you a job this way. First of all, your audience isn’t dumb, and they can smell baloney when it’s put in front of them. Secondly, even if you get the job, you’ll get found out soon enough.

As Abraham Lincoln said, “You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time.” Don’t try to get your job this way…

If you get asked a question that you don’t understand, just say, “I don’t understand your question. Could you repeat it?” If you aren’t sure what the answer is, just say, “I don’t know the answer at this point.” Be honest, and confident about your honesty. People will respect this more than you know.

Once you know that you are giving a presentation for your job interview, take some deep breaths, take some time, and follow some simple steps. When you do this, you’ll be in a good state and ready to present yourself to your new employers.

Good luck!

When you get to the end of your presentation, you generally will have a question-and-answer or Q&A session. Here are 7 helpful tips for making your Q&A successful.

- Encourage questions

When you finish your presentation, you should ask your audience if they have any questions. Make this open and warm by saying something like, “Feel free to ask me any questions” as opposed to cooler response such as, “I was told to give you 15 minutes for questions, so fire away.”

One of the ways to ensure that your audience receives your presentation well is when they feel that you’re comfortable in your own skin. When you ask for questions, it sends a message that you want to hear from your audience (that’s good!), and that you feel comfortable being put on the spot. So, encourage questions during your Q&A.

- Don’t let one person ask all the questions

You want to be open in answering questions from your audience, but that doesn’t give one audience member a license to ask all the questions. The audience will recognize if somebody is trying to dominate the conversation, so feel free to take charge – you are the one in control of your presentation.

If someone dominates the Q&A, say something like, “I’m happy to answer more of your questions after the session is over, but I’d like to give other members of the audience a chance to ask a question. Are there any other questions?”

Don’t blow the person off, but don’t let them take control of your presentation by dominating the conversation.

- Be honest and don’t try to make things up

Many times you might find yourself unable to answer a question that’s posed to you. It may be that you’ve never thought of that question before or that you just don’t have the information in front of you.

Regardless, if you don’t know the answer, just say that you don’t know the answer. Experts don’t always have all of the answers at the tip of their tongue. But whatever you do, don’t try to make up an answer just to make it look like you have one. It’s bad form.

- Have an example question ready

Sometimes when you start the Q&A, you hear silence. The audience may not be ready or know what to ask. In preparing for your presentation, you may want to have an example question ready that you can ask it to yourself, and then answer it.

You might say, “Well, here’s a question that I’ve been asked before.” Go ahead and ask the question, and then give your answer. This warms the audience up for the Q&A and presents them with an example of the types of questions that are worth asking. This should get things going on the right foot.

- Keep your answers short

It can sometimes be easy to answer a question in a lengthly and detailed way. Key tip — Don’t do it!

If someone asks a question, your audience may want to hear your answer. However, they don’t want every chapter and verse detailing that answer. If you need to get into a lengthly explanation, give a short answer and then ask the questioner if you can talk with them offline.

Your audience wants to hear short, concise answers, so value their time by staying away for answers that are too long.

- Manage the questions effectively

The Q&A part of your presentation is limited, so you need to have a handle on how to manage the questions. When someone asks a question, it’s usually good to repeat the question itself, maybe in your own words. This lets others in the audience hear the question (the questioner might be too soft-spoken), and it also allows you to rephrase a difficult question into something that can be answered more easily.

Of course, you may get repeat questions or people who aren’t even asking you questions – they’re making speeches. When this happens, it’s usually good to steer clear of engaging with these folks, so here are some tips for handling this.

If you get a repeat question, just say, “Well, that question is similar to one I answered before. I’m happy to speak with you after the presentation if you’d like a more detailed answer.” If you get a speechmaker, politely ask if they have a concise question, and if they persist, just say, “I’m happy to talk with you later about that point. Let me see if there’s anyone else who has a question.”

- Keep your cool

Sometimes the questions can be tough and the questioners can be even tougher. But don’t lose your cool or get angry when responding.

Remember, you’re in control of your presentation, not your audience. Being defensive with your responses indicates that you’re not in control, so work hard on maintaining your emotions. If the questioner has made a good point about your presentation which becomes difficult to answer, acknowledge it. Just say, “That’s a very good point — one worth looking into more.”

What you don’t want to do is get into an argument with a questioner, since regardless of who is right in the argument, the presenter comes out the loser. Stay in control of your emotions and you’ll come out of a tough Q&A session well.

PowerPoint is a great software package for creating presentations. And one of the most powerful features in PowerPoint is the ability to animate text, pictures, and graphics.

However, with any technology, people can abuse it, so there are some things you’ll want to keep in mind when using PowerPoint animation.

Here are 4 must-have nuggets on how to use PowerPoint animation effectively.

1) Use animation to control the flow of your presentation, not to entertain

You are the one that must control your presentation. You are trying to convey a message and you want to bring your audience step-by-step with you.

That means splitting up your presentation into different slides or mini-messages and you show them one at a time.

The great part about animation is that you can further “bite size” your message into smaller parts without having to make more slides.

Animation lets you show one or more bullets at a time, so that you can talk about them, and then move on.

By not showing future bullets on your slide, you prevent your audience from jumping ahead or trying to read your slide before you get to a certain point (believe me, they do…). It controls your audience’s attention and forces them to pay attention to your particular point on your terms.

However (and we’ll talk about this a bit later), some people overuse animation. These presenters think that you need to dazzle the audience with flying bullets or whizzing intros to keep their attention.

No way!! Animation is a tool to help you convey your message and control the flow of your presentation. It is not an entertainment device — using it in this way distracts the audience from your message.

So, if you want to use animation effectively, use it to enhance your message. If your audience wanted to be entertained, they would have bought tickets to the circus.

2) Use animation to illustrate a point that words or pictures alone can’t do

Again, the point of your presentation is to convey your message to your audience. You may do this with words, which is most common. You may also use pictures — because a picture’s worth a thousand words, right?

However, sometimes statics things like words or pictures might not be enough. Adding dynamic features can bring the message to life and be more effective in its presentation.

For example, let’s say you are trying to convey a message that sometimes you have to look harder to notice something important. So you may show a picture of a beautiful scene, say mountains or the ocean, but off to the side, there is something disturbing that you want to point out — something not noticeable unless you’re attention is brought there.

You can show the picture on the slide, and then use animation to bring up an arrow pointing to the place of interest. Or maybe the animation feature is a zoom feature, where you show the full picture, but then you trigger a zoomed-in part of the picture to appear, focusing on the area you want to highlight.

Now, you could do this by adding charts or by pointing out the area yourself when you’re presenting. However, this is where the animation features of PowerPoint work best — in conveying a part of your message that words or pictures alone cannot.

If you focus on using animation this way, you’ll definitely see great results.

3) Slower is better

Animation has a number of speeds for entrances and exits. Sometimes your point might be made better if a bullet point or picture is displayed quickly.

However, in most cases, using a speed that’s a little slower presents a sense of being in control of presenting the point. And that’s what you’re really looking for.

Of course, be careful, you don’t want it too slow — your audience will get aggravated if it takes forever for the next animation feature to come up.

So set the speed to Medium — avoid the Fast or Very Fast (unless of course these speeds are what you really want to make your point). In fact, I like Dissolve, since it slows up even more the transition of the animation.

4) Don’t overdo it

PowerPoint animation works best when it’s used to focus your audience’s attention. It works worst when it acts to distract their attention.

So when you’re adding your dancing bullets, or superimposing audio “whoosh” sounds to your PowerPoint slides, ask yourself whether this will focus or distract your audience.

If it focuses, great. If it distracts, get rid of it.

When we give presentations, many of us get all tied up in knots worrying about what to do if an audience gets angry.

You get worried. Being up there, completely exposed. And you’re afraid that the audience will turn on you…

You have the “deer in the headlights” look, because you don’t know what to say.

You feel insecure because you’re thinking that the audience has exposed you as a fraud. All these people staring at you wondering why you don’t know the answer to the question. I mean, you’re the expert — you’re supposed to know these things, right?

Well, hold on…

Half of the anxiety you may feel comes from having this internal discussion going on in your head. In most cases, it’s never as bad as we imagine in our head.

Honestly. Most people do not think like this, and won’t be hostile to you. They are real people who are genuinely interested in what you have to say.

And know that you’re human. You may not have all the answers to everyone’s questions at exactly the right moment and describe those answers in exactly the right way for every member of the audience.

So, take heart. It is NOT as bad as you think…

However, some people do ask tough questions, and can make it uncomfortable for you when you’re giving your presentation.

For taming this handful of people, there are some helpful tips that you can keep in mind. Here are five simple tips that can help you through these tough times.

– Be honest – Saying “I Don’t Know” is OK

People like honesty. And they will understand if you don’t have all the answers right at your fingertips. So don’t stress about it.

Now, that doesn’t give you an excuse to be unprepared in your presentation, but you can’t anticipate everything.

If someone asks a question to which you don’t know the answer, just say “I don’t know”, and agree to look into it for them. It might even be good to ask that they give you their contact information and say that you’d be happy to get in touch with them later with what you find.

This will defuse the questioner, since you’re agreeing to try and answer the question. You’re just admitting that you don’t have the information right now.

While the questioner might not be happy with that answer (I suppose you can’t make everyone happy…), the rest of the audience will understand and agree that this is reasonable.


– Keep Your Cool

Some people can be really rude when they ask a question. They might call you a name or say that what you said was a load of bull. They might make sweeping characterizations of what you said just to make a point.

While you might be afraid of what the audience thinks of these questions, your reaction will be how the rest of the audience actually judges you. If you’re cool under tough questioning, then the audience will perceive you as being under control.

If you get angry or sarcastic in response to a tough question, then the audience will judge you as being an angry person or someone who doesn’t respect the person asking the question (since you responded with sarcasm).

So it’s not the question, it’s your response, and this is where you are in complete control.

Whatever you do, never make it personal. While the questioner might make it personal, you should never reply in kind.

Focus on the question itself, not on the person. Try hard to find something of value in the question, and answer that part of it. The rest of the audience will recognize you’re trying hard to provide quality information and will value you for that.

– Stay In Control of Your Q&A

When someone asks a question, you need to make sure that they don’t hijack your presentation. A good, tough question deserves a straightforward answer. That’s fair.

However, if not reigned in, a tough questioner can become a speechmaker. They go from asking you a question about what you’re presenting to making statements about what they think. They may even go so far as to start giving the presentation for you — on their terms.

Or, the questioner can keep asking questions in a combative manner or start asking other questions that are off topic.

In either of these cases, it’s completely acceptable to stop the questioner (of course, politely) and move the presentation along. Just say, “I’m happy to continue this dialogue offline, but I’d like to give others the opportunity to ask questions.”

The audience will thank you for this (because it’s their time that the questioner was imposing on…), and it keeps the presentation moving.

So, remember, answer tough questions directly, but don’t let a questioner take over your presentation.

– Repeat the question

If you listen carefully to the question and repeat it back, it sends a couple of important messages.

One is that you are listening, which communicates that you value the question enough to be able to ask the question yourself. It means that you understand it.

This alone can defuse a hostile questioner since you’ve conveyed a subtle message that you actually care about answering their question.

A second message is that you care about the audience since you value making sure that they know the question that you are going to answer.

Sometimes presenters get a tough question and they answer it with something that makes the audience wonder whether that was really the question or not. The answer itself may seem to them like the presenter is ducking the question.

Repeating the question and answering it conveys a message that you are answering the question, even a tough one, directly — a good quality for a strong presenter.

– Remember, it’s not the entire audience – it’s probably just one person

Don’t judge the entire audience by the fact that one person may be asking a tough question. If you keep this in mind, then you can serve the needs of the entire audience in how you handle this one question.

Keeping this mindset will get you through a tough Q&A period, since it segments the problem area (one person with one tough question) away from what you might be most afraid of (the entire audience throwing tomatoes at you…)

Again, most anxiety of public speaking comes from the irrational fear of having the entire audience being against them. Just because one person may ask a tough question doesn’t mean the entire audience agrees with them.

 

You’ve heard it a hundred (if not a thousand) times: You never get a second chance to make a first impression.

Yeah, yeah, yeah… So, is this going to be another one of those articles?

Well, no, but I’ll have to admit, there is truth about the whole first impression thing…

It turns out, psychologically, that peoples’ impressions of things – people, food, whatever – are truly most influenced by their first exposure to them. These first exposures set the initial state by which we compare any future exposures.

So, while first impressions can be overcome, they are very important since they carry the most weight.

And if you’re giving a presentation or trying to make a sale, you’ve only got one chance to get off on the right foot. So controlling the first impression is very important.

Knowing this, here are several things that you can do to create a powerful first impression.

Be Prompt

People’s time is important to them, so don’t start off your first interaction with these people by wasting it. If you have an appointment set for a particular time, arrive at that time. Now you can arrive early, but if you do arrive early, it’s even better to hang out for a little bit, and arrive on time.

If you schedule a time to speak with someone at, say, 3 PM, you’ve made a mini-contract with that person to set time aside at that very time.

Coming early is better than coming late, but arriving on time is absolutely the best. Being prompt means that you keep your word and honor your commitments, and that goes a long way to making a great first impression.

You want to communicate that you are valuing the other person, and you do that by valuing their time. Being prompt is critical in making good first impressions, so manage your time (and their time) wisely.

Be Positive and Smile

In general, people like being around people who are positive. So, if you want someone to have a good impression of you, it’s in your best interest to have them think you are a positive person.

That means smiling and having a positive attitude or take on items that come up in conversation. This doesn’t mean that you can’t present a critical assessment of something that is mentioned, but don’t be negative about it.

Again, people make quick judgments based upon things based upon their experiences. If you’ve know someone for a long time and you know that they are a positive person, that one time that you hear them complain or be negative won’t really change your opinion.

However, if that one time was the only experience by which to judge them, you’d jump to the conclusion that overall he or she is a negative person. Don’t let this generalization happen to you — be positive and smile in your first meeting.

Be Courteous and Attentive, and Be a Good Listener

People also love when others treat them as the center of attention. So if you want someone to think highly of you, be a good listener. Without saying a word, you are sending a message that the other person is important — important enough to listen to what they are saying.

Back in my days in working with radar technology (sorry to go all “geek” on you…), we would recognize that radars had two modes of operation, “transmit” and “receive”. As you might guess, “transmit” is when the radar is sending energy out, and “receive” is when the radar is “listening” for energy that’s coming back.

Well, I knew and worked with people that were always on “transmit”. They couldn’t stop sending out what they thought, and would never go on “receive”. It drove people (and me) absolutely nuts, because the impression was that they didn’t care what I thought — they didn’t bother to listen to me.

In your first meeting with people, don’t be on “transmit”, be on “receive”. Listening is one of the most important things to do when meeting people for the first time. In fact, you’d be surprised how much more highly someone would think of you the LESS you speak.

Be Careful with Humor

You might be a funny person, but be careful with using humor in your first interaction with people. It’s best to be professional — you can figure out how to inject humor into your conversations later.

Humor is always good to break down barriers and make people feel more comfortable with you, but you can’t be sure what are things that the other person might find humorous until you get to know them.

Trying to make light of something without knowing the other person (their background, what they’ve been going through, etc.) can backfire if you’re not careful, which isn’t what you want in making a first impression.

Again, humor can work well in subsequent meetings with people, but in your first one, focus on making a great first impression. And you can do that by being careful with using humor right away.

Use the Name of the Other Person Frequently

It’s been said that the single greatest word that another person likes to hear is their own name.

It does work some sort of magic when you use a person’s name with them in conversation. It conveys an impression of an intimate working relationship, like you’ve been working with them for months or years.

It also conveys an impression that you care enough about the other person to call them by their name. You can have the same conversation with someone and never use their name. However, it would have a colder, more distant feeling to it than if you injected their name into the conversation a few times.

Of course, don’t overdo it, but using their name brings the other person into the conversation more deeply. It really works, and it can enhance the power of your first impressions greatly.

Stephen Hawking has many things in common with some of the great scientists of our time, his understanding of the intricacies of the universe rivaling that of Albert Einstein.

When Stephen Hawking was born, he came into our world exactly 300 years after Galileo Galilei left.  Two great scientists, connected by their birthdays, separated by three centuries.

Yet, the most remarkable aspect of Stephen Hawking’s contributions to science is his ability to communicate his ideas to others, especially those outside the sciences.

And of course, this is made even more remarkable given what he has personally had to overcome.

Stephen Hawking received his Ph.D. in cosmology from Cambridge University, but almost upon arriving there, he started developing the symptoms of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), which is also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease.  This is a type of neurological disease that causes loss of neuromuscular control and, in many cases, paralysis.

Hawking is now bound to a wheelchair, is almost entirely paralyzed, and can only speak through the aid of a computer-generated voice synthesizer.  Hawking uses his cheek to painstakingly enter words into the communications device, so constructing complete sentences is a long process.

While people who develop the stages of ALS are given about two to five years of life expectancy, Hawking has survived with the disease for well over 40 years.

Yet despite these physical challenges, he achieved great scientific success, being selected the Lucasian Professor of Mathematics at Cambridge University (the same position held by Issac Newton 300 years earlier) and being named a Fellow of the Royal Society, Britain’s oldest and most prestigious scientific association.

However, Hawking’s most indelible contribution to science would be the publication of his best-selling book A Brief History Of Time, which stayed on the British Sunday Times bestsellers list a record-breaking 237 weeks.

In his book, Hawking explains the aspects of cosmology, including black holes, the Big Bang, and superstring theory, to those not skilled in the sciences.  His entire goal for the book was to communicate his knowledge to others who didn’t have his background in physics, and probably would not understand complex mathematics by showing equation after equation after equation.

In fact, as the story goes, Hawking was warned by his editor that for every equation he included in the book, his readership would be cut in half.  For that reason, he only included Einstein’s E=mc2 relationship, and went further to make the subject accessible by including many illustrations throughout the book.

While Stephen Hawking can teach us a great deal about black holes and gravitational singularities, he teaches us much more about something else that makes him a great scientist.  The fact is that information in his mind would be useless to anyone else if he wasn’t able, somehow, to communicate it effectively.

Society progresses when the innovators and the discoverers share with others what their ideas are and what they’ve discovered.

Becoming successful in science and technology takes a desire to communicate what you know to others, so that they can share and build on these discoveries. 

The greatest impact of your work will be when more people know and rely upon your insights.  However, they won’t be able to do that unless they understand what you know.  And for them to know and to understand, you must make the choice to explain what you know and communicate your understanding effectively.

Just imagine the loss to our world had Stephen Hawking not developed his magnificent ability to communicate what he knows.  Certainly many explanations could have been given that his physical ailments have locked away his understanding and prevented the world from accessing his knowledge.

However, he chose to overcome these limitations and developed his extraordinary means of communicating his knowledge and understanding.

And the world, in fact the universe, is a better place for it.

This may be a harsh way to start off this column, but it is a way to get your attention about the principle behind the statement.

Technically, things aren’t always your fault.  There are circumstances, reasons, environmental variables, and people’s reactions that play into every situation you face.

However, what is always true is that you are involved in the situation.  And there is always something you can do about it.

But before I go deeper into this, let me describe a situation I was in during graduate school…

I was taking a class called “Oceans and Atmospheres” (or something like that) and, I’ll admit, I didn’t really groove on this subject.  It was all about inversion layers, radiative transfer, and relative humidity – for me, not what drives me.

(Go figure that I’d go on to work for a company whose primary specialty was in oceans, but that’s another story…)

So, I found myself having a tough time “getting it” – I had received a C+ on the midterm (although I’m not sure I really deserved such a low grade…).  I could have just given in and said to myself that I’ll never really learn this well, and lived with a lower grade.  However, I decided to work with some of my friends in the class and work through the problems together.

Now, one day I received my grade on a homework assignment, and I knew that I had solved the problem correctly (we had to prove that the given statement was true, or something like that…).  Yet, the professor marked it wrong, and appended the comment, “Yeah, if I really believe it”, to the problem.

What?!  Did the professor really write that?  I mean – he was really going after my work for no good reason.  I was just astounded…

So, I went up to the professor after class, and asked him if he could explain the comment and why I didn’t get credit for the correct answer.  He just looked at it, laughed, and said something like, “I suppose I shouldn’t have said that.  Here, I’ll mark it right.”

Now, this got under my skin even more.  How could he be so cavalier with the grades he was handing out?  Plus, he wrote this condescending comment on my work, yet he just dismissed as a quirk in his personality that wasn’t important…

It turned out that he and my graduate advisor were on the same faculty and there were, let us say, tensions.  Based on the environment and the reactions, I could tell that I was being held to a different standard that other members of the class, based on nothing of my own doing.

Yet, instead of giving in to the situation, accepting a lower course grade, and explaining it all to myself through excuses and rationalizations, I chose to do everything I could, within my own control, to create a different outcome.  I wanted to make sure that I got the absolute best grade possible, given the circumstances.

So, first, I buckled down and chose to study this material like I studied no subject before in my life.  I know that this professor had given an A+ to some students on the midterm (to some of his “favorites”), so there was a possibility, if I knew the material down cold, that I could get a similar grade.

Next, I went to the graduate student advisor in the department to let her know the situation, just to make her aware.  I didn’t expect that she would do anything about it, but I wanted to let someone know of the circumstances.  I had never done anything like this before, so I was a little nervous.  But it was a step that I felt I needed to take to do everything I could about the situation.

As the final approached, I had probably learned more about oceans and atmospheres in school that at any other time, and I really think I knew the final material better than anyone else. 

And the test bore that out – I had aced the final, receiving that A+ that he probably never wanted to hand out to me, because he had no other choice.  I knew the material backwards and forwards and I blew the curve of his test.  He put me in a situation that I didn’t enjoy, and I turned the tables, took control of what I could, and put him into a corner – he had to give me his best grade on the final.

It turned out that I got a B+ in the class as a result – a fair score given my poor grade on the midterm – and I didn’t have to see the student advisor after that. 

I did what I needed to do, and I took complete responsibility for the outcome that came to me.  As a result, I got the grade that I wanted, given the circumstances.

So, where does this all lead?  It shows how, even when the situation seems bad and things are stacked against you, there is always something that you can do to change the outcome in your favor.  Always.

Things may not turn out as well as you might like them to turn out (I did only get a B+ in my course…).  However, there’s always something that you can do to make the situation better.  Always!…

Successful scientists don’t fret about the situations they’re in, and they certainly don’t get down on themselves, thinking that the world is against them.  They overcome their circumstances and put their best foot forward. 

So, to become as successful as you can be, take complete responsibility for the situation you’re in, and do everything you can to perform the best you possibly can.